Monday, July 14, 2008

NO RULES, NOT RIGHT

What would our world be without rules? What if there were no commandments? Then what would our rules of society be based on?

1. We would be our own Gods or we would make Gods out of anything or anyone.


2. We could worship things made from gold, brass, metal, wood or other materials.

3. We could talk about the Creator anyway and make jokes about Him.

4. We would work ourselves sick or chose a day of man's choosing for rest and refreshing.

5. Children could disrespect and disregard their parents authority.

6. You could kill anyone who made you angry or just because you do not like them.

7. You can take your friend's or neighbor's husband or wife.

8. You can take another person's property if you wanted it.

9. You could lie when it suited your purposes.

10. You could envy or covet the belongings of other people (which would lead to #6,#7 or #8).


Think about it, if the commandments were nailed to the cross, then why are we bothering to live by any of them. We should just be doing what we want, whenever we want and for whatever reason we want. Our society would be a very unhappy place. We would be scared all the time and there would be no peace. Our world would be worst than it is now--like it was in the days before the flood.

The LORD saw how great man's wickedness on the earth had become, and that every inclination of the thoughts of his heart was only evil all the time. Now the earth was corrupt in God's sight and was full of violence. God saw how corrupt the earth had become, for all the people on earth had corrupted their ways. (Genesis 6:5,11,12)


Sunday, July 13, 2008

PARENTS JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND

Parents really do understand.

They understand the issues that matter. Parents also experienced peer pressure, feelings of inadequacy, selfishness, joy, lonliness, fear, doubt, pride, anger, relief, etc.


Though they may not be as technologically savvy, that can learned, just like their children are learning. But that does not disqualify them and me, for that matter, from identifying with the human issues children face.


If we had listened to our parents and respected their age and experience more, we would have saved ourselves from many mistakes and enjoyed more of life.

Children always think they are smarter than their parents. Like the Children of Israel, they have to go through many painful experiences unnecessarily before they realize the wisdom that is available to them.


To the mother whose son is rebelling against the family, she should realize that rebellion began in heaven with Lucifer, then with Adam and Eve, then with Cain and has continued through the ages. 2 Timothy 3:2 & Romans 1:30 states that in these last days, disobedience to parents will be one of the major issues to be dealt with. Where can she turn? To God! She has to pray and fast for her child like never before. All day, throughout the day. It's a committment, but God hears the prayers of the surrendered parent.


Lastly, there's a quote that says "more is caught then taught." We model behavior to our children. I may not be able to tell my children what is a podcast or what to do with an ipod (because I really don't), but I can model character to them. In the end, character is what really matters.


Parents, give yourselves a break. You've been a child once and that experience is invaluable to your child. Don't be ashamed to share with your child your successes and mistakes. Let them know that your advice was not just pulled from the air, nor is it being used to beat them over the head. Let them know that you love them and are accountable to God for how you raise them.


Thanks Atiba for giving me something to think about and practice in my own family.


Leuanna
Visit the HEAVEN BOUND Blog
http://www.http//jarsofoil.blogspot.com

This was a response originally published to the comments at
http://atibadesouza.blogspot.com/2008/06/parents-dilema.html

Friday, July 11, 2008

THE CHRISTIAN CHURCH THROUGH THE AGES

The Church of the Old Testament

God's church stretches from Eden to Eden. Those who have obeyed God have been called by various names such as "the sons of God,"(see Genesis 6:2 and Romans 8:14) "the seed of Abraham*(see Isaiah 41:8 and Hebrews 2:16)", "the children of Israel,"(see Genesis 46:8 and Acts 10:36) or "Christians."(see Acts 11:26) They all have the same fundamental beliefs.


The Church of the Old Testament accepted the law of God as its rule of life

The Ten-Commandment law is unchangeable because it is an expression of God's character, which is universal, eternal, unchangeable (see Hebrews 13:8). Long before the commandments were given to Moses on Mount Sinai, the people of God were keeping them. God said, "Abraham obeyed my voice, and kept my charge, my commandments, my statutes and my laws." (Genesis 26:5)


God has had only one method of salvation, one standard of righteousness, all through the ages

We read in Psalm 105:8-11 that He made a covenant with Abraham, Issac and Jacob and the children of Israel for an everlasting covenant. God declares that that covenant was made forever, "the word which He commanded to a thousand generations." It is not correct to say that in Old Testament times people were under law and in New Testament times people were under grace. God has always maintained a harmony of law and grace. We are saved by faith in the Lord Jesus Christ and when we have experienced this salvation and have entered into a saving relationship with Him, we delight to do His will (and keep His commandments).

The members of the Old Testament church showed their faith in the plan of salvation by offering a sacrifice. By faith they accepted God's plan, for the sacrifice was a symbol of the Lamb of God, who would take away the sins of the world. They became free men and women, new creatures through faith in the coming Messiah. The hope of the ages has always been the coming of the Lord.

God instructed the church members in Old Testiment times through prophets. Moses was the first writer whom God used to record permenent instructions for His church and to preserve the people's experiences for future generations. These inspired writings were read to the congregations on the seventh-day Sabbath and on other special occasions. These writings are known to us as the Old Testament.

Excerps Taken from Church Heritage: A Course in Church History

Bold emphasis and red references added

*more on "the seed of Abraham" in another Blog (http://jarsofoil.blogspot.com/2008/07/seed-of-abraham.html)

Wednesday, July 9, 2008

AMAZING DISCOVERIES

Here's a list of the videos or audios in the Total Onslaught Series that you may view on http://www.amazingdiscoveries.org/. Go to Media, then click on the series you want. There are also series on Healthy Living, Science and Music.

1. Just Another Man? (Jesus, Messiah or Impostor)

2. Where Jesus Walked

3. An advocate for our Time (An explanation of the Sanctuary)

4. The Mists of Time

5. The Man Behind the Mask

6. The Revelation of Jesus Christ

7. Seven Churches

8. Seven Seals

9. When Trumpets Sound

10. The Beast from the Bottomless Pit

11. The Secret Behind Secret Societies

12. Hidden Agenda

13. Battle of the Bibles

14. Changing the Word

15. Revolutions, Tyrants and Wars

16. The Islamic Connection

17. The Crime of All Ages

18. Two Beasts Become Friends

19. The Wine of Babylon

and many more

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

THE WORD OF GOD

Any bible topic must be studied with the Word of God in hand. The Torah or Pentatuch will give only part of the picture. The whole bible (old and new testiment) will give a comprehensive picture. I recommend the King James Version (KJV) along with the New International Version (NIV) to supplement.

For a study on why translation is so important, listen to "Changing the Word" (214B) and "Battle of the Bibles" (213B) by Professor Walter J. Veith on www.amazingdiscoveries.org or watch it on www.video.google.com by conducting a search by title.

COMMUNITY HEALTH SERIES

Beginning August 1st 2008, the Hyattsville Seventh-day Adventist Church will be hosting free weekly health seminars for the community. Programs will be held every Friday from 7:00-8:30pm through December 19, 2008.

Colon Health
Friday, August 1st, 2008
Venetta G. Kalu, ND, MPHA
Founder
Path of Life Wellness Center
www.drkalu.com/


Mental/Emotional Health
Friday, August 8th, 2008
Kim M. Barry, LICSW, LCSW-C
President
Rebound Center, Inc.


Childhood/Adolescent Health
Friday, August 15th, 2008
Joanna Carter
Executive Director
Flexible Family Fitness
www.flexiblefamilyfitness.com/


Physical Health/Everyday Addictions
Friday, August 22, 2008
Aldrenna P. Williams, MS
Health Education and Wellness Consultant


Your Health Your Choice
Friday, August 29, 2008
Professor Walter J. Veith
Amazing Discoveries
http://www.amazingdiscoveries.org/


Other upcoming topics include prostate health, domestic abuse, diabetes, etc. Please join us and bring your neighbors and friends.

Location:

Hyattsville Seventh-Day Adventist Church (Fellowship Hall)
4807 42nd Place (2 blocks south of the P.G. County Courthouse Bldg.)
Hyattsville, MD 20781

For questions, please contact Leuanna Matheson at 202-437-4867.

Monday, June 16, 2008

WHAT BRINGS HAPPINESS

Happy is he...



...whose hope is in the Lord (Psalm 146:5)

...that feareth always (Proverbs 28:14)

...that keepeth the law (Proverbs 29:18)

...that hath mercy on the poor (Proverbs 14:21)

...whom God correcteth (Job 5:17)

...who trusteth in the Lord (Proverbs 16:20)

...condemneth not himself in that thing which he alloweth [read whole chapter for its full context] (Romans 14:27)

...suffereth for righteousness' sake (1 Peter 3:14)

...hath his quiver full of them [children] (Psalsm 127:5)

...whose God is the Lord (Psalm 144:15)

Friday, June 13, 2008

WHO LIKES REJECTION?

Not me! I'd be willing to say, not you either. Even God doesn't like rejection. When the children of Israel asked Samuel for a King, the Lord said, "...for they have not rejected thee, but they have rejected me, that I should not reign over them." (1 Samuel 7:8)

Recently, I was struck with the thought that my life is spent doing mostly for me. There was nothing that I really did for the Lord. I felt pretty contented with the fact that I'm raising four children so that pretty much makes me exempt from active witnessing. For you it may be the many ministries you're involved in at church or the many charities and events you participate in in your community.

There is a belief that we witness just by existing and that you don't need to go out to witness about Jesus love and salvation--people will just see Christ in you. If that was the case, Jesus would have left it at, "Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven." (Matthew 5:16)

He did not leave it there, because later on, before His ascension, He said, "Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost: Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the world. Amen." (Matthew 28:19,20)

Believe you me, talking to strangers or even friends and acquaintances about Christ is not something I cherish. It's not me. I can't do it. That's not my gift. But did Jesus tell the disciples to go out witnessing if that was their special gift. No! Of the gifts listed in 1 Corinthians 12, witnessing is not one of them. We're all just asked to do it. Scary thought!

I walk around quoting, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me," but then claim "can't" when I don't want to do something He asked me to do. Why?

Rejection! Preservation of Self! Plain and simple. The word of the Lord loses power for me when it comes in conflict with His will versus mine. Whether it's submitting to my husband, speaking kindly to my children, giving the smelly old man some change or saying good morning to the rude girl at the checkout, I'm in constant conflict between God's will and mine.

Let me wrap this up.

We have to tell people about Jesus. We have to look for opportunities to share the gospel with a spiritually dead world. We have to go where the lost are and not wait for them to come to us or ask us. They won't. They're in jeopardy of being lost. They don't know that there is a better way. We have to tell them. We can do it. Why? Becasue we "...can do all things through Christ who strengtens" us. (Philippians 4:13)

If they don't want to repent and be converted, they're not rejecting us, but God. Start with your own family members who don't follow Christ. From now on, every person you meet is someone who will either have eternal life or perish. God help us!

Thursday, June 12, 2008

WILL IT BE FOR NOTHING

"If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?" (Matthew 7:11)


My children are precious gifts to me from God. The more I study, the more this is evident. My responsibility and act of gratitude is to raise them to be fit citizens of a civil society and more importantly, to prepare them to inherit eternal life in Heaven. I spend time reading and researching about food and nutrition so that meals are nutritious and tasty. Countless hours are spent planning their academics so that they are prepared for life in the world around them. Even more time is spent teaching them biblical principles for living, because "what good is it if they gain the world, but lose their soul." More time is spent scheduling interesting educational trips so that what they read in books comes alive. Playdates are secured with their friends and relatives so that they cultivate their own godly relationships.

For all that, one would think that my children would be grateful and thankful. As sin would have it, they don't seem to be. Don't misunderstand me, they say "thank you" for meals that they like, for outings that they enjoy and for individual special time spent together doing something that they want to do.

What I'm talking about are the times that they complain because they don't get to do something they like, when schedules change, when I say "no", etc. And it's not just complaining, it's the attitude that goes along with it or the retaliation that is taken out against another sibling. They don't think about the love that I have for them or remember when things did go their way.

This made me think about our individual relationship with Jesus Christ. We all have one! Either it's a growing relationship or an estranged one.

God wanted so much to give us eternal life and save us from Satan's power over us through sin. God sent His only son, Jesus Christ, as our redeemer. Jesus gave up glory in Heaven to become like mortal man so that He could identify with us, show us how to live and yet purchase our salvation with His own precious blood.

Are we grateful for this gift of salvation like loving children should be? Do we murmur and complain against the Living God when life does not go our way? Are we thankful that He sent His son that we might have eternal life? Do we accept Jesus Christ as our loving saviour and friend or do we reject Him as just another man?

These are or were, just men. Some can even be classified as great.

John the Baptist
Michael Jordan
Jesus 12 Disciples
the Popes of Rome
Martin Luther
Elvis Presley
John Calvin
James White
Walter Cronkite
Tupak Shakur
Barak Obama
Derek Jeter
Gandhi
And the list goes on and includes every male who ever lived and those who died



For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved." (John 3:16,17)

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Sinners in the hands of an angry God? NOT SO!!

"Say unto them, As I live, saith the Lord GOD, I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked; but that the wicked turn from his way and live: turn ye, turn ye from your evil ways; for why will ye die, O house of Israel?" (Ezekiel 33:11 - Read the whole chapter)



"But if the wicked will turn from all his sins that he hath committed, and keep all my statutes, and do that which is lawful and right, he shall surely live, he shall not die.
All his transgressions that he hath committed, they shall not be mentioned unto him: in his righteousness that he hath done he shall live.
Have I any pleasure at all that the wicked should die? saith the Lord GOD: and not that he should return from his ways, and live? "
(Ezekiel 18:21-23, Read the whole chapter)



Again, when the wicked man turneth away from his wickedness that he hath committed, and doeth that which is lawful and right, he shall save his soul alive. Because he considereth, and turneth away from all his transgressions that he hath committed, he shall surely live, he shall not die. Yet saith the house of Israel, The way of the LORD is not equal. O house of Israel, are not my ways equal? are not your ways unequal? Therefore I will judge you, O house of Israel, every one according to his ways, saith the Lord GOD. Repent, and turn yourselves from all your transgressions; so iniquity shall not be your ruin. Cast away from you all your transgressions, whereby ye have transgressed; and make you a new heart and a new spirit: for why will ye die, O house of Israel? For I have no pleasure in the death of him that dieth, saith the Lord GOD: wherefore turn yourselves, and live ye. (Ezekiel 18:27-32, Read the whole chapter)
God has two natures
"And the LORD passed by before him, and proclaimed, The LORD, The LORD God, merciful and gracious, longsuffering, and abundant in goodness and truth,
Keeping mercy for thousands, forgiving iniquity and transgression and sin, and that will by no means clear the guilty; visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children, and upon the children's children, unto the third and to the fourth generation." (Exodus 34:6,7)
Once Saved, Always Saved? No!
"But when the righteous turneth away from his righteousness, and committeth iniquity, and doeth according to all the abominations that the wicked man doeth, shall he live? All his righteousness that he hath done shall not be mentioned: in his trespass that he hath trespassed, and in his sin that he hath sinned, in them shall he die." (Ezekiel 18:24)


Tuesday, June 10, 2008

BE A NON-CONFORMIST

"And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God" Romans 12:2

Monday, June 9, 2008

WHY BOTHER TO PRAY

  • Our prayers puts the answer in motion. God deserves the credit, so someone has to pray, otherwise we would think that we created the outcome ourselves or that it just happened by coincidence.

Thursday, June 5, 2008

OSTEOPEROSIS

A major health concern for older women is the degeneration of their bones. Known as Osteoperosis, this disease is caused by a depletion of calcium in your bones. We have been taught to drink milk, lots of it, to help combat this condition. Truth be told, the cow's milk that we've been drinking will not help.

Before I share with you some other "foods" that deplete calcium from your body, let me be honest. If you've been accustomed to believing everything you hear in the news or read in the newspapers or what you've been told, without doing some research and verification of you own, chances are that most of what you think is truth is not. This also pertains to religious matters. That is why the encouragement is given, "study to show thyself approved*." You've got to know why you believe what you believe, whether it's about religion or about health--Materials on this blog included.

Now back to Osteoperosis!

Alcohol
Coffee
Cola (aka soda, pop, aereated drinks, etc) - because of their high phosphoric acid content

These drinks deplete the calcium deposits in your bones. The young people that are consuming a regular diet of these beverages will not see the results until they get older, so it's not just an elderly problem.

Here's what you can do to help your bones.

Exercise - specifically weight bearing exercise like lunges, push ups, strength straining, etc. are very helpful in helping to strengthen your bones. Like I said, investigate for yourself and trust your instinct (aka The Holy Spirit which everyone has a measure of**). Only you know which exercises work for you. If you've never exercised or haven't done so in a while, start off slowly and build up to a good pace as you become stronger. Poor health doesn't happen overnight, nor will you repair the ill effects overnight.

Nutrition - foods like sunflower seeds, spinach, and other unprocessed food that God provides in nature are very benefitial because of their high calcium content.

Healthy Thinking - half of our health battles goes on in the mind. If we've purposed in our hearts to start eating healthy, exercising or refraining from habits that are killing us slowly, we are almost there. On the other hand, if we begin thinking about all the obstacles to our success before we even start, we're already defeated. Don't let the next family dinner two weeks from now or the office party one month from now, be the reason why you can't start now.

Our lives are too precious to lose because of bad food choices. It's time we put a stop to gluttony and sinful gratification of appetite.

*2 Timothy 2:15a
**1 John 3:24; John 1:9

N.B. No medical sources were quoted because you can find all this out for yourselves, if you haven't already.


Thursday, May 29, 2008

TEN COMMANDMENTS WEEKEND

*Note - all times are central

Friday, May 30, 2008
8:00-9:00pm Commandment #1 C.A. Murray
9:00-10:00pm Commandment #2 Jay Gallimore

Saturday, May 31, 2008
9:00-10:00am Commandment #3 Shelley Quinn

10:00-11:00am Music

11:00-12:00am Commandment #4 Stephen Bohr

Break

2:00-3:00pm Commandment #5 Mike Tucker
3:00-4:00pm Commandment #6 Kenneth Cox
4:00-5:00pm Commandment #7 David Asscherick
5:00-6:00pm Commandment #8 David Shin

Break

7:00-8:00pm Commandment #9 Frank Gonzalez
8:00-9:00pm Commandment #10 John Lomacang

"3ABN Camp Meeting and 10-Commandments Weekend will be combined and aired live on http://www.3abn.org/, May 28-31, 2008. Please invite the community and if you're local, join us for a special viewing at Hyattsville Seventh-Day Adventist Church on Friday, May 30 at 8:00pm (1st Commandment) and 9:00pm (2nd Commandment) and again on Sabbath, May 31 from 9:00am - 9pm (3rd through 10th Commandments). Feel free to stay for as many as you like. For more information about the rest of the programming schedule and speakers please visit http://www.3abncampmeeting.org/schedule.html." * all times are central

Church Address

4905 42nd Avenue (Off Rt. 1; 2 Blocks south of the courthouse)

Hyattsville, MD 20781



You may also call the church at 301-927-2080 or Pastor Samuel at 301-318-0133.

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

MAY SHOWERS

Another month almost over. Hopefully, life is not continuing as usual. Sometimes it may seem like just another day, but it's not. It's one day closer to the return of Jesus Christ.



This month's blog is for homeschooling Moms and Dads or those thinking about homeschooling.

(1) On June 1st, Chaim Time School will be hosting their closing ceremonies for the school year। All homeschoolers, potential and interested parents are invited to attend. The program will feature the work that the children have accomplished during the past school year. Please come and support.


Place: Mt. Rainer Nature Center
Time: 4:00pm
Free


(2) Each morning at 7:00am there is a wonderful exercise program suitable for pre-schoolers, school-age, adults and the elderly. The background music is peaceful and undistracting and the moves are simple, yet effective.

Title: Body and Spirit

View online at http://www.3abn.org/



(3) At 8:00am and 8:00pm, Monday - Friday, you can listen to The Bible in Living Sound on the computer. These scripturally correct stories are a good addition to your own personal bible study.


Listen online at http://www.3abnradio.org/

Friday, April 18, 2008

CHRIST OUR HOPE

Jesus Christ is truly the hope of our sinful world. The Prophet Isaiah calls him, ..."Mighty God, The Everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace" (Isaiah 9:6). The name Jesus means, "Yahweh is Savior." Why? Because "...He will save his people from their sins" (Matthew 1:21).

That's the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Belief or unbelief does not change what is true. When the early explorers believed that the Earth was flat, that didn't change the shape of the Earth. As they investigated further, they discovered their error and truth was made known to them and they accepted it.

1 John 1:1-3 states that God manifested his love toward us through his son Jesus Christ. Christ died on the cross to redeem the world from sin (John 3:16). If we turn from sin and accept his salvation, He will forgive our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). Jesus was resurrected from the grave and conquered the one thing that Satan brought to this Earth--Death (through sin). Christ then ascended into Heaven and is inviting people to Him and interceeding on our behalf. There is salvation in no one else. Luke testified, "Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved (Acts 4:12). Jesus testified of himself, "I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me" (John 14:6).

Behold, Jesus will come again. His return is imminent. It will be literal. It will be visible by the whole world. It will be loud.

Watch therefore: for ye know not what hour your Lord doth come (Matthew 24:42).

Wednesday, March 19, 2008

...WHOM YOU WILL SERVE

The Great Controversy between Christ and His Angels and Satan and his Angels
by Ellen G. White
**1858 Edition

Chapter Titles 21-30

21. The Church and World United
22. William Miller
23. The First Angel's Message
24. The Second Angel's Message
25. Advent Movement Illustrated
26. Another Illustration
27. The Sanctuary
28. The Third's Angel's Message
29. A Firm Platform
30. Spiritualism

Listen to Chapters 21-30 by clicking the following link:http://www.audioverse.org/displayrecording/731/EllenGWhite-GreatControversy1858EditionCh21-30


Chapter Titles 31-41

31. Coveteousness
32. The Shaking
33. The Sins of Babylon
34. The Loud Cry
35. The Third Message Closed
36. The Time of Jacob's Trouble
37. Deliverance of the Saints
38. The Saint's Reward
39. The Earth Desolated
40. The Second Resurrection
41. The Second Death

Listen to Chapters 31-41 by clicking the following link:http://www.audioverse.org/displayrecording/732/EllenGWhite-GreatControversy1858EditionCh31-41

Sunday, February 17, 2008

WHAT'S SO AMAZING

There are a series of lectures that have really made a difference in my life. Here is the link to view them online. (scroll down to get to the correct title)



#201 Jesus, Just Another Man? Daniel 9

http://video.google.com/videosearch?q=walter+veith&num=10&so=0&start=10


#202 Where Jesus Walked

http://video.google.com/videosearch?q=walter+veith&num=10&so=0&start=120


#203 Jesus, Our High Priest - An Advocate for our Time -- The Sanctuary

http://video.google.com/videosearch?q=walter+veith&num=10&so=0&start=10




If you do not have DSL or video capability, you may listen to the full-length bolded audio lectures at:
http://amazingdiscoveries.org/media-audio-Total-Onslaught.html

Tuesday, January 29, 2008

CHOOSE YE THIS DAY...

Why is there suffering in the world?
Where did Satan, the devil come from?
What gives people hope today?
Who can save us from our condition today?
When will the battle between God and Satan finally end?
How can we know what is the truth in all the information we hear or read?

Almost everyone has asked at least one of these questions in their lifetime. Begin to get answers to these and other perplexing questions below.

The Great Controversy between Christ and His Angels and Satan and his Angels
by Ellen G. White
**1858 Edition

Chapter Titles 1-10

1. The Fall of Satan
2. The Fall of Man
3. The Plan of Salvation
4. The First Advent of Christ
5. The Ministry of Christ
6. The Transfiguration of Christ
7. The Betrayal of Christ
8. The Trial of Christ
9. The Crucifixion of Christ
10.The Resurrection of Christ

Listen to Chapters 1-10 by clicking the following link:

http://www.audioverse.org/displayrecording/729/EllenGWhite-GreatControversy1858EditionCh1-10

Chapter Titles 11-20

11. The Ascension of Christ
12.The Disciples of Christ
13.The Death of Stephen
14.The Conversion of Saul
15.The Jews Decide to Kill Paul
16.Paul Visited Jerusalem
17.The Great Apostasy
18.Mystery of Iniquity
19.Death, Not Eternal Life in Misery
20.The Reformation

Listen to Chapters 11-20* by clicking the following link:

http://www.audioverse.org/displayrecording/730/EllenGWhite-GreatControversy1858EditionCh11-20

*There are 41 chapters total in this book.

**you may also read along by clicking on the site below
http://theseventhunders.com/Books/1858gc-all.pdf

Monday, December 3, 2007

Friday, November 30, 2007

WATCH AND PRAY

One day the books won't help, the tapes won't help, the blogs won't help, the sermons won't help, the friends won't help and the family members won't help. The only thing that will suffice will be your own study of God's word (2 Timothy 2:15). You'll will have to make a decision based on your own convictions. Whether you decide to join the family of God or stay in the family of God will depend on how you feel about what you have studied. If you are moved by the Holy Spirit to accept by faith the things He has shown you, you will respond by your actions. Life will not be the same. It's a sobering thought, but you will have to make a decision. Choosing to do nothing is also making a decision.


...How long halt ye between two opinions? if the LORD be God, follow him: but if Baal, then follow him (1 Kings 18:21).

Sunday, October 7, 2007

ABUSER OR VICTIM?

During the course of our lives, we come in contact with many people. Some are nice to us and treat us with love and kindness, while others are mean and treat us very badly. The impact of people's treatment of us can affect our lives in different ways. They may influence us for a little while or for a lifetime. Obviously, if the treatment you received was good, you'll have fond memories of that person and want to continue in relationship with them, if possible. You'd think that the opposite would be true for someone who has treated you badly. Interestingly enough, as in the case of parents who abuse their children, the child may take the blame for the abuse and put that parent on a pedestal. [Read articles in PDF format about child brain development by Dr. Bruce Perry at: http://www.childtrauma.org/updates/ct_updates.asp]


For the the child who does have a desire to leave, he/she feels trapped in that abusive home and must endure the abuse until the opportunity presents itself for escape.


The sad reality is that abuse takes place in many homes. I won't even bother to quote any statistics becasue they's be incorrect. Abuse is not something the victim discloses easily. Because of sin and the devil's desire to destroy mankind from young, know that abuse is more widespread than you think.


This month's blog takes a glimpse on one area of abuse, verbal (emotional). You'll find information, resources and encouragement from the Word of God. Take a look at your own life. If you're a victim or have been and never healed, get help. If you're the abuser, STOP and get help! Break the cycles of unhealthy and unholy way of relating to each other. While you're going through recovery and pursuing a healthier and holier way, don't neglect to give God the glory and claim the victory through Jesus Christ. Thanks be to God who giveth us the victory through Jesus Christ (1 Corinthians 15:57).



VERBAL ABUSE


The Evils of Angry, Hasty Words. --When you speak angry words to your children, you are helping the cause of the enemy of all righteousness. Let every child have a fair chance from babyhood up. The work of teaching should begin in childhood, not accompanied by harshness and fretting, but in kindness and patience; and this instruction should be continued through all their years to manhood and womanhood.


Let every family seek the Lord in earnest prayer for help to do the work of God. Let them overcome the habits of hasty speech and the desire to blame others. Let them study to be kind and courteous in the home, to form habits of thoughtfulness and care.

What harm is wrought in the family circle by the utterance of impatient words, for the impatient utterance of one leads another to retort in the same spirit and manner. Then come words of retaliation, words of self-justification, and it is by such words that a heavy, galling yoke is manufactured for your neck; for all these bitter words will come back in a baleful harvest to your soul.


Hard words beat upon the heart through the ear, awakening to life the worst passions of the soul and tempting men and women to break God's commandments . . . . Words are as seeds which are planted. [The Adventist Home, Ellen G. White, Pg. 438-439; Review and Herald Publishing)


[Read more at http://www.nisbett.com/reference/ah/ah71.htm]


Guidelines for Healthy Communication


Ephesians 4:29 - Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.


Ephesians 5:19-21 - Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.


Psalms 19:14 - May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, O LORD, my Rock and my Redeemer.


Proverbs 15:23 - A man finds joy in giving an apt reply— and how good is a timely word!


Isaiah 50:4a - The Lord GOD hath given me the tongue of the learned, that I should know how to speak a word in season to him that is weary...


Matthew 12:36 - But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment


James 3:2, 8-10 - We all stumble in many ways. If anyone is never at fault in what he says, he is a perfect man, able to keep his whole body in check... but no man can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in God's likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers, this should not be.

Here is a wonderful website that gives guidance on healthy ways of communicating, especially with children:

http://www.restoration-international.org/article.php?id=18


Thursday, September 6, 2007

SCHOOL'S IN SESSION

Life is a classroom filled with one learning experience after another. Since early August, students across the country have been returning to a new grade and for some, a new school. During the upcoming year, they’ll be exposed to information that may be beneficial or detrimental to their spiritual lives. Whether each student believes in the God of heaven does not matter because He does exist, and so does His enemy, the devil. On a daily basis, at any given moment, both are vying for the attention of your child—and for you as a matter of fact.

Look at the people around you or watch television and you’ll agree that everyone is either led by a spirit of good or evil. From the music and books to television and friends, they will be learning about life. You may have seen, Truth about Hip Hop already, and truth be told, any music not born of God is born of the devil. Visit - http://exministries.com/. WARNING!!! DON’T GO HERE IF YOU HAVE WEAK SENSIBILITIES LIKE ME. Whatever your taste, there’s a style of music designed to dull your spiritual senses. Ivor Myers, an ex-rapper, who made the choice to leave the music industry after landing a big contract, calls it musical sorcery. He details the sobering origins of some of the music that is hypnotizing our children (and adults) today. Visit -http://powerofthelamb.com/. Lest you think that other “less-urban” forms of music are ok, read African musician, Brian Neumann’s essay, “From Rock Music to the Rock of Ageshttp://www.biblicalperspectives.com/rockbook/CH_14_NEUMANN.pdf. Here is what he says,


"In spite of contrary claims, no significant difference exists
between secular rock music and its “Christian” version. Why?
Simply because both share the same musical rhythm and are driven by the
same relentless beat. Contemporary Christian Music in its rock, rap, rave,
jazz, metal, or related forms shares the same accentuated, syncopated,
and persistent rhythm of the “rock beat.” Other aspects may also be shared,
but the beat is the real heart and soul of it. Irrespective of its lyrics,
Contemporary Christian Music that conforms to rock’s essential criteria in
any sense cannot be legitimately used for church worship. The reason is
simple. The impact of rock music, in whatever version, is through its music,
and not through its lyrics.

Some argue that so-called “Soft Rock” should not be placed in the same category as the other harder forms of rock. This is not true. A lot of soft rock, although slower in nature, still carries a consistent, syncopated beat and often overaccentuates it. Another important point to consider is the expression, atmosphere, and delivery of soft rock.

Lyrics sung in a breathy, over-sentimental tone suggest an atmosphere of love or lust between a man and woman. These hardly provide an appropriate medium to express love to a Holy God. I am not talking only about lyrics here, but also of atmosphere and tone. All words, whether spoken or sung, are delivered in a unique tone to convey a special intent.

Music designed to express love for Jesus should conform to what the Greeks call agape–love, which is unselfish, and not to what is termed eros–love, which is erotic and self-centered. When choosing our Christian music today, we have to exercise great care and discernment because not everything that comes with a Christian label attached to it is necessarily Christian. This is true even if it does not have a heavy beat."

Music isn’t the only influence that must be guarded with discernment. I’m sure that no one would argue about the evils of the Harry Potter series. Scripture says it plain, ‘Do not turn to mediums or seek out spiritists, for you will be defiled by them. I am the LORD your God.’ (Leviticus 19:31) and ‘And the soul that turneth after such as have familiar spirits, and after wizards, to go a whoring after them, I will even set my face against that soul, and will cut him off from among his people’ (Leviticus 20:6). This series has created a thirst in young people for power not of God.

As in the days of Noah, some people have chosen to drown out uncomfortable messages by riotously living (parties and sex) or slowly dying (television and
over-eating). Our children are learning from the lives we live. If we’re not
truly converted in our hearts, they’ll follow our example. Today is the day to choose whom you’ll serve—God or Satan. God wants you to have life and have it more abundantly (John 10:10). He’s not willing that any should die (2 Peter 3:9). Satan wants to kill you, and in the very least, to destroy your children and wreck your family. I plead with you—choose life.


VARIOUS AND SUNDRY ANNOUNCEMENTS

Amazing Facts Presents:
Here We Stand
Foundations of our Faith
September 7-15, 2007
7:00pm EST
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Check website below for a host site near you:

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or watch streaming video on 3ABN - http://www.3abn.org/ nightly at 7:00pm EST



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Heritage Singers
Sponsored by Worthington/Kellogg Foods

Saturday, September 8 at 6:00 PM

Sligo Park Adventist Church
7700 Carroll Ave.
Takoma Park, Maryland
http://www.sligochurch.org/

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Art Show & Sale
by Louis Gaither
(featuring Watercolor and Oil Paintings)

Sunday, September 9, 2007
12:00 - 4:00pm

Hyattsville Church Fellowship Hall
4807 42nd Place
Hyattsville, MD 20781
301-927-2080

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CHAIM TIME ENTERPRISES
Presents A
“BACK TO SCHOOL”
CLASS

FOR PARENTS


“FOOD FOR THOUGHT”
Using Nutrition To Boost Your Child’s Learning Potential

Learn From a Nutritionist Basic Meal Planning And Diet Strategies That Will Fortify Your Child’s Mind

September 17, 2007
6:00 pm

Glenarden Library
8724 Glenarden Parkway
Glenarden, MD 20706

To register for this workshop or upcoming classes,
call (301) 419-8087 or email chaimtime@gmail.com

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Segregation and Overt Racism in 2007
Read the story of segregation in Jena, Louisiana at http://www.colorofchange.org/jena/message.html
Support by signing the petition, financially supporting the defense fund and/or by attending the rally in Jena on September 20th.
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Festival of the Laity 2007
September 26-29, 2007
Orlando, FL
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Baltimore Book Festival
September 28-30, 2007
Friday, 5-9pm
Saturday, 11am-7pm
Sunday, 11am-7pm
Location: Mount Vernon Place
600 Block North Charles Street
Baltimore, MD 21201
*in light of preceding article, use discernment

Sunday, August 5, 2007

FROM GENERATION TO GENERATION...

The decisions you make today will not only affect you, but generations to come. What seeds are you sowing? Whether it’s a matter of health, finances, morals, etc., what you do today will reap a positive or damaging result in the future. Recently, the slogan, “What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas,” inspired some pretty interesting advertisements. That kind of thinking drives many people to abandon sound reasoning and live for the moment, forgetting what Luke 12:2 says, “There is nothing concealed that will not be disclosed, or hidden that will not be made known.” Apply the thought to your own lives; your own family. What are you reaping today that was sown three or four generations ago and what are you sowing for the generations to come?

This month’s Blog encourages us to make wise decisions believing that “whatever a man [or woman] sows, that he [she] will also reap” (See Galatians 6:7,8). Spend some quiet time reflecting on your own life and the paths you've come; your family and the history they've made.

Thankfully, no one is without hope, if we’ve sown bad seed (gluttony, overspending, alcoholism, etc.) or reaped bad crop (obesity, debt, physical abuse), God’s word says that He is able to restore what the locusts have eaten… (see Joel 2:25). We can learn much from those who have lived longer than we have. Either we learn from their mistakes or follow their paths of wisdom. The guy many people admire for doing it all and having it all--Solomon--also gives us kernels of wisdom in Ecclesiastes that we can learn from. Check out his writings; it's not just good reading.


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17th Century Nun’s Prayer

Lord, thou knowest better than I know myself
That I am growing older and will some day be old.

Keep me from the fatal habit of thinking that I must say something
on every subject and every occasion.
Release me from the craving to straighten out everybody’s affairs.

Make me thoughtful, but not moody; helpful, but not bossy.
With my vast store of wisdom, it seems a pity not to use it all,
But thou knowest, Lord, that I want a few friends at the end.

Keep my mind free from the recital of endless details;
give me wings to get to the point.

Seal my lips on my aches and pains.
They are increasing,
and love of rehearsing them is becoming sweeter as the years go by.
I dare not ask for grace enough to enjoy the tales of others’ pains,
but help me to endure them with patience.
I dare not ask for improved memory,
but I ask for a growing humility and a lessening cocksureness.
When my memory seems to clash with the memories of others,
teach me the glorious lesson that occasionally I may be mistaken.
Keep me reasonably sweet.
I do not want to be a saint – some of them are so hard to live with –
but a sour old person is one of the crowning works of the devil.

Give me the ability to see good things in unexpected places,
and talents in unexpected people.
And give me, O Lord, the grace to tell them so.

Source Unknown


Old School Rhyme

There was an old woman who lived in a shoe
She had so many children, she didn't know what to do
She gave them some soup without any bread
And whipped them all soundly and sent them to bed


New School Rhyme
Copyright 2007 Leuanna Matheson

There was a young woman who lived in a house
She had a few children and thank God, a spouse
She prepared healthy meals, made sure they were fed
And prayed with them nightly, before retiring to bed



WHAT NOT TO SAY TO CHILDREN


Stop crying! What are you, a baby? [Babies aren't the only ones who cry. Children have feelings too and they rarely cry for no reason. Discern the reason and address their need]


Do as I say and not as I do [As adults we should be modeling the life we expect our children to live, otherwise we're just being tyrants]


Do...or else! [I've learned that threats are not a good motivator for action. Behavior changes should be a willing choices that are made after the consequences have been lovingly foretold]


When your child points out an obvious double standard, you say.... When you become an adult, you can ..... [That statement teaches children that once they get older, rules don't apply. Don't be a hypocrite]


You are just like you father/mother [Very rarely is that statement meant as something positive. Remember that life and death are in the power of the tongue (Proverbs 18:21). Speak life into your children's lives]



WHERE SAYINGS ORIGINATED FROM


  • It was the accepted practice in Babylon 4,000 years ago that for a month after the wedding, the bride's father would supply his son-in-law with all the mead he could drink. Mead is a honey beer and because their calendar was lunar based, this period was called the honey month, which we know today as the honeymoon.


  • In English pubs, ale is ordered by pints and quarts... So in old England, when customers got unruly, the bartender would yell at them, "Mind your pints and quarts, and settle down." It's where we get the phrase "mind your P's and Q's"


WHO ARE YOU MOST LIKE?

Ask yourself:

What did I get from my mother/father that I did not want?

What do I resent about my mother/father?

How what I got from my mother/father contaminates my relationships?

What do I love about my mother/father?

If my mother/father had 1 minute to live, what would I say to her/him?


Excerpt from an old episode of The Dr. Phil Show


SOWING HEALTHY SEEDS...

...FOR YOUR BODY


Breathe-Free Stop Smoking Seminar

Smoking and related diseases are one of the primary causes of premature death in Baltimore . The impact of these diseases disproportionately affects women and African Americans. The Miracle Temple Counseling Center is sponsoring a Breathe-Free Stop Smoking Seminar, a step-by-step plan to assist people of all ages to break free from the smoking habit in 8 days without the use of drugs or stressful procedures. The program begins on August 7, 2007 and will be held in the conference room of the Education Building at
100 S. Rock Glen Road Baltimore , Maryland 21229.

There is a minimal cost; however, scholarships are available based on need. People can register by calling Dr. Michael Reed of the Breathe–Free Program at (443) 414-9224 or (443) 801-4924.

web: http://www.miracletemple.net/
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...FOR YOUR MIND


Psalms 147:3 – “He healeth the broken in heart and bindeth their wounds


Have you longed for peace. You’ve always heard that there’s more to life than
what you’re currently experiencing, but can’t seem to find it.

Far too many people have gone through life just existing and it’s worse for the
Christian because he/she knows that Jesus came that we might have abundant life.
But where is it?

The experiences from early childhood and even as far
back as birth, have shaped our thoughts and behaviors today. Oftentimes we react
to situations w/o understanding where our feelings come from.


If you're interested in facilitating or attending a small group in your area, check out, http://www.yourlri.com/.



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...FOR THE SPIRIT

Hosea 10:12 (NIV)
Sow for yourselves righteousness, reap the fruit of unfailing love, and break up your unplowed ground; for it is time to seek the LORD, until he comes and showers righteousness on you.


Micah 7:18,19 (NIV)
Who is a God like you, who pardons sin and forgives the transgression of the remnant of his inheritance? You do not stay angry forever but delight to show mercy.
You will again have compassion on us; you will tread our sins underfoot and hurl all our iniquities into the depths of the sea.

Thursday, July 12, 2007

LOVE: THE GREATEST OF THESE (Part 2)

On July 22, God willing, we will celebrate six years of marriage. As in years past, I reflect on where we’ve come and how we’ve grown. Although it seems like a long time to me, I’m still humbled by the fragility of this particular institution and don’t take for granted each year we’re together. Thanks to numerous journals I’ve kept over the years, I’m reminded of our incredible journey—good and bad.

The apostle Paul learned through his own life struggles to be content in times of plenty and in times of want. I too, am still learning to do the same—to be content when there’s lots of love flowing between us, and when our love tanks are running on fumes. Through the good times, I’m keenly aware that at any minute we could be at odds or worst yet, at war. Recently, I’ve come to the realization that most conflicts can be traced back to the issue of love or lack thereof. Put another way most conflicts stem from feelings of rejection on some level or another.
With our willingness, we can learn to love or get the help we need, to overcome the obstacles that prevent love from flowing freely in our relationships.


Public Service Announcement: KEEP LOVE ALIVE

One of the best things you can do for love is nurture it. Like your car or your body, routine maintenance and regular checkups are beneficial for preventing breakdown. Attend a relationship workshop yearly, meet with other couples on a regular basis and schedule time together to discuss tough issues. Make your relationship a priority and you’ll see its health
improve.

CAUTION!PRACTICE AT YOUR OWN RISK :)

The following was inspired during our Anniversary trip to Niagara Falls last year. The result is a beautiful baby girl.


THE LOVE CHAPTER: KEY ELEMENTS OF INTIMACY
(Artistic Interpretation of 1 Corinthians 13)

What if we applied 1 Corinthians 13 to the Marriage Bed? We quote the verses at
our weddings and apply the principles to our daily interactions, but what if we
applied the following principles to the area of our relationship where God is
the furthest thing from our minds?

Be Patient – Take the time to enjoy each other. Savor each moment. Use your five senses of touch, taste, smell, hearing and sight to enhance the experience. (See Song of Solomon 1:2; 2:6; 4:11; 6:4 and 7:7-9)

Be Kind – Compliment profusely. Now is not the time to take note of, or verbalize physical imperfections. Be thoughtful in what you say. (See Song of Solomon
4:1-7; 5:10-16 and 7:1-5)

Envy Not – Be content and comfortable with who you are and the person to whom you're married. Don’t wish that you or your mate looked the way you or they did in college or envy what you think someone else must be enjoying. (See Song of Solomon 8:6; 7:10; 6:3 and 2:16)

Brag Not – Leave your past in the past. If you didn’t enter this marriage as a virgin or this isn’t your first marriage, don’t brag about the women's worlds you rocked or the men you brought to tears.

Puff Not – Allow room for growth and change. Don’t presume to know it all and
don’t assume that your mate likes what you like.

Don’t Be Rude – Respect each other’s temples and individuality. If your mate does not feel comfortable with something, don’t force him/her.

Don’t Be Selfish – Put each other’s needs first and you’ll both be satisfied. There’s no room for self-gratification in this arena.

Don’t Be Easily Provoked – Make room for mistakes and extend a little grace. Whether due to exhaustion, lack of knowledge or memory loss, your mate will not always please you. It’s ok! There’s always tomorrow.

Keep No Record Of Wrongs - Enjoy the here and now. Don’t rehash yesterday’s offense or the last time you had to extend grace while intimate.

Think No Evil – The songs “It’s Morning” and “Me and Mrs. Jones,” glorify adultery. Be honest in your heart w/God and your spouse, so that you come together with a clear conscience. (See Song of Solomon 3:1-5)


When you were a child, you played childish games. Leave the games
out. Don’t toy with each other’s emotions. If your mate hurts you,
don’t pout and threaten to take your good loving elsewhere. This union is
supposed to bring both of you face-to-face w/each other’s excellent qualities
and dark imperfections. No one knows you like your spouse. Have
faith in each other; Hope for the best in your marriage and let love win
out. (Song of Solomon 8:7)


Copyright 2006 Leuanna Matheson

SUGGESTED READING LIST

Everybody Wins: The Chapman Guide To Resolving Conflict Without Arguing – Gary Chapman
To read about or purchase this book, check the link:
http://www.amazon.com/Everybody-Wins-Chapman-Conflicts-Marriage/dp/141430014X


Boundaries Face To Face: How To Have That Difficult Conversation You’ve Been Avoiding – Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend
To read about or purchase this book, check the link: http://store.cloudtownsendstore.com/bofatofabo.html


For men only A Straight-forward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women – Shaunti & Jeff Feldhahn

Rescue Your Love Life: Changing Those Dumb Attitudes & Behaviors that Will Sink Your Marriage – Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend
To read about or purchase this book, check the link:
http://store.cloudtownsendstore.com/reyololi.html


ANNOUNCEMENTS

Sunday, July 1, 2007

LOVE: THE GREATEST OF THESE (Part 1)

"I LOVE YOU!" How many times in your life has someone said these words to you? How did these words make you feel? Did you believe the person who said them? Did you reject their words because you thought that you were not worthy of their love? Each and every one of us wants to be loved. If anyone says they don't care if they are loved, then you know immediately that they have been hurt so many times that they have put up a protective wall around their heart. God created us to love; to love Him, to love others and to love ourselves.

Along the way, we receive messages that damage our ability to give and receive love. This month's blog looks at these three avenues of love and comes in two parts.


LOVE FOR GOD


THE 10 COMMANDMENTS OF LOVE

“…which is the great commandment in the law?: Thou shall love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind…Thou shall love thy neighbor as thyself" Matthew 22:36-39.

How do you love God? You don’t have to look far for the answer, because He’s already told us in John 14:15, “If you love me, keep my commandments”

Commandments 1 through 4 show us how to love God.

#1 – Do not put anything or anyone else above Him
#2 – Do not worship idols (inanimate objects)
#3 – Do not use the Lord’s name in an inappropriate or disrespectful way
#4 – Remember the Sabbath day and do not work or transact business on that day

Commandments 5 through 10 show us how to love others.

#5 – Treat your parents with respect and those whom God has placed in authority
#6 – Do not do anything that kills life
#7 – Do not engage in an extra-marital affair, either physical or emotional
#8 – Do not take what does not belong to you
#9 – Do not be deceptive with what you say or what you withhold
#10 – Do not desire other people’s possessions


LOVE FOR OTHERS


A CHRISTIAN'S CONFESSION AND PRAYER


“He that says he is in the light, and hates his brother, is in darkness even
until now. He that loves his brother abides in the light, and there is none
occasion of stumbling in him. But he that hates his brother is in
darkness, and walks in darkness, and knows not whither he goes, because that
darkness hath blinded his eyes.” 1 John 2:9-11

Before coming to my new church (a multi-cultural congregation), I didn’t realize that I was walking in darkness. The darkness had blinded my eyes and I didn’t know where I was going. Being in a predominantly one-race church, I didn’t have to deal with or worship with the people against whom I was prejudiced. Snap judgments were made about everything from their style of worship to the way they raised their children. I made disparaging remarks about them--God’s children—without realizing the shroud of darkness that surrounded me.

Lord, today I confess that I have hated my brother. That’s probably why it’s been difficult to receive his love toward me. Free me from the bondage of hate and prejudice. Open my eyes to the love that unites us. Open my heart to the love he has to give. Open my heart to your love that binds us (2 Corinthians 5:14).


LOVE FOR SELF


If you have issues with receiving love; If your parent abandoned you and you’ve never dealt with your feelings; If you seem to enter into relationship after relationship and your significant other keeps leaving you, then The Mode, Segment 2 of the Journey is for you.

10-week class: $40
Gas to get there: $4.10
Being able to enjoy healthier relationships: priceless

This class focuses solely on rejection and its devastating impact on our everyday thoughts, feelings and behaviors. The workbook and accompanying video series will give an understanding of how your feelings of rejection sets you up for failed relationships, anger, lack of self esteem, negativity and many other issues (excerpt from Life Renewal Institute website).

When: Wednesdays, beginning July 11 for 10 weeks
Where: Living Faith Ministries
10266 Battleview Parkway
Manassas, VA 20109
For Time: Call Sally at 703-331-3820
http://www.lfmi.org/html/registrations.shtml


"When we first married, Ron and I thought that everything was great. We
paid only two dollars for the marriage license and on our wedding night the
vending machine at our hotel gave us two cans of ginger ale for the price of
one! What a bargain. But the first snafu arrived on day five of the
honeymoon....."

If you’re interested reading the rest of Ron and Nancy’s personal story, click on the following link entitled Life Puzzles:
http://www.yourlri.com/blog.cfm

For further information check out:
"Overcoming Our Beginnings," on You Tube: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Y7xgiDrSKA



SUGGESTED READING LIST

Boundaries in Marriage – Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend
To read a preview or purchase, click on:
http://store.cloudtownsendstore.com/boinmabo.html or better yet, borrow it from the library

Love and Respect – Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
To read a preview or purchase, click on:
http://www.loveandrespect.com/content/e-store_popup2.php?ItemID=48

Just Enough Light For The Step I’m On – Stormie O’Martian
To read a preview or purchase, click on:
http://www.stormieomartiangifts.com/shop/item.asp?itemid=81

For Women Only – Shaunti Feldhaun
To read a preview or purchase, click on:
http://www.4-womenonly.com/book_detail.aspx?ISBN=1590523172


ANNOUNCEMENTS


SUMMER ACTIVITIES

FREE Hyattsville Church 75th Anniversary Weekend
July 13-14, 2007
4905 42nd PlaceHyattsville, MD 20781
301-927-2080
FMI Visit: http://hyattsville22.adventistchurchconnect.org/
Lunch on Saturday will be at Columbia Union College in Takoma Park.
To RSVP for lunch, call any number listed on the website. ALL ARE WELCOME!

FREE Summer Concerts
Bladensburg Waterfront Park
4601 Annapolis RoadBladensburg, MD 20710
301-779-0371; TTY 301-699-2544
6:00 – 7:30pm

FREE Anacostia River Boat TourJoin a park naturalist aboard a pontoon boat to search for birds and other wildlife.
No reservations needed for this FREE river tour.
April 15-October 31
Tuesdays-Thursdays, 12 noon-12:45 pm
Saturdays & Sundays 5-5:45 pm
FMI Visit: http://www.pgparks.com/places/nature/bladensburg.html

FREE Movies in Maryland
Union Station
Tuesday, July 3 (Charlotte's Web) & Wednesday, July 4 (Barnyard) @ 10:00am
For future schedule check :http://www.flexiblefamilyfitness.com/

More FREE Movies
Just key in your state for a theater near you
http://www.regalcinemas.com/freefamilyflicks/

Monday, May 28, 2007

SUMMERTIME

As we enjoy ourselves, let us remember that there's one out there who could care less about you having a good time. Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour (1 Peter 5:8).

I included Wait on Him, because this summer will be the first summer that some families will be spending apart. Visitation will need to be worked out and court proceedings attended, but I wanted to offer a word of encouragement and hope for any married couple who has recently separated, divorced or who is thinking about either. Remember that nothing is impossible with God (Luke 1:37).

Lastly, you may be familiar with the NEWSTART Principles. I've modified them. If you WANT a FRESH start, check out the tips for a healty summer.


“Wait on the Lord; be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart;
wait, I say on the Lord,” (Psalms 27: 14)

Year 1 of marriage was, or seemed rather, like the biggest mistake of my life. Year 2, a trial, but on the heels of year 3, I saw the hand of the Lord moving upon our hearts and minds.

I see why the divorce rate is so high among people who love each other; who care for each other and who are attracted to each other enough to have children together. The trials of this life beat us down enough, but when our sins and true selves begin to surface, fierce conflict ensues. Lovers begin to despise each other and friends become bitter enemies. It’s a bad state of affairs and much prayer is needed.

My heart is especially pained for the young people who marry with little, incompetent or no counseling. We are not prepared for the changes that will take place and feel betrayed by those who walked this road before us. There is a deception by the enemy to hide the rough roads that inevitably will come, so many suffer in silence. But Praise God, I see hope.

Prayer and information and sometimes pure willpower can save many marriages and restore some that have even ended. It cannot be done in our own strength, or with our own knowledge. We need to be open to the wisdom of the elders (1 Pet. 5:5). We need to pray (1 Thes. 5:17), we need to exercise sheer will (Phil. 2:13; Matt. 26:41) and we need God’s strength (2 Cor. 12:10).

Marriage is a blessing from God and a great privilege. Let us enjoy His gift and seek to bring Him glory in it.


W-A-N-T a F-R-E-S-H start?

  • Water – Especially essential during the hot, humid months
  • Air – A little fresh air does the lungs and the temperament well
  • Nutrition – with “umpteen” barbeques, picnics or cookouts, gluttony is prevalent (Don't let your belly become your god)
  • Temperance - "Enough is as good as a feast" (This doesn't just apply to food)
  • Faith – Trust that God is working everything out for your good and his glory
  • Rest – Longer days and shorter nights means less sleep, try to get some rest during the day
  • Exercise – In some form or other, keep those muscles moving, especially the ones in your face (smile more)
  • Sunshine – From Vitamin D to battling jet leg, the sun can be of great benefit in healthy amounts (For the entire article, go to http://www.amazingfacts.org/; click on Inside Report Magazine and scross to the newsletter titled, "The Power of Plodding" in PDF format)
  • Hygiene – Shower with slightly warm water (this keeps you cool during the hot days); wash hands and face after coming in from outdoors; brush regularly

Friday, May 4, 2007

SINGLENESS OF HEART

Before I started dating, I thought that I was the perfect christian. In fact, I though that I was ready for translation. My time was spent between service-oriented church activities, work and spending time with loved ones. My biggest sin, as I viewed it, was procrastination. One could hardly think that I'd miss out on heaven for such a minor imperfection.

As I reflect on my life now and then, there was much more sin in my life than I realized. There was much more that I could have done to spread the gospel. I judged my life based on what I wasn't doing. Today I realize that a fruitful single life or Christian life for that matter is more about what you're doing, not about what you're not doing. We feel good saying, "I don't drink"; "I don't smoke"; "I don't use drugs"; "I don't....". The real question should be, "what am I doing for Christ?

I look back at my life and long for the time I had to myself to do as I pleased. I regret the time I spent in college making a fool of myself. Oh how I wish I could have shared with my friends and acquaintances about the love of Jesus. Paul was on it when he said that the married woman's heart will be divided between God and her husband. 1 Cor. 7: 25,26 states,

"Now regarding your question about the young women who are not yet married.
I do not have a command from the Lord for them. But the Lord in his mercy has
given me wisdom that can be trusted, and I will share it with you. Because of
the present crisis, I think it is best to remain as you are
." (NLT)


I can't say that to too many of my single friends because they think that I'm trying to keep them from the greatest thing on earth (marriage) or that I'm patronizing them in their singleness. But, I doubt that I could find five married women who would disagree with me that the apostle Paul was absolutely right.

This Month's Blog is dedicated to the singles who are the happiest people in the world according to many surveys and polls. Enjoy this time that you have to be "free to do what I want."


Single in Relationships--Rules to live



Don't date because you are desperate
Don't marry because you are miserable
Don't philander because you think you are irresistible
Don't sleep around because you think you are old enough to handle the consequences
Don't regress
Don't put your life on hold for Mr/Mrs.Right
Don't throw your life away on absolutely Mr/Mrs. Wrong because your biological clock is ticking


Single-minded toward's God

One of the greatest barriers to a fruitful relationship with God is misunderstanding of who He is. Many of us have gotten a distorted view of God based on the relationship with an important male figure in our lives -- our fathers. Chances are, whatever the relationship was between you and your earthly father, is the way you'll view your relationship with your heavenly father. If your earthly father was aloof, you'll see God as being aloof and hesitate to go to him in a crisis. If you father was your greatest cheerleader and champion, you'll see God as being your strength in the time of storm and be assured that there's nothing that you can't accomplish.


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at attachment styles and how they develop from our time in mothers womb and
forward. The Passenger seminar and small group follow up will give you an
understanding of how your beginnings and early attachments impact your life
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the past and opening the door to the promise of a brighter future. This is an
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Single after Divorce

It breaks my heart when I hear of another couple separating or divorcing. I am deeply affected by it, especially if it's friends of mine or even people I'm mildly acquinted with. What makes two people so bright-eyed for each other one day and months or years later they can't stand to breath the same air.

From countless conversations, I venture to say that many of the conflicts stem from lack of knowledge. Not lack of knowledge about marriage, but lack of knowledge about oneself. That 's why I push so hard for the Journey Program by Life Renewal Institute. Were it not for the information I learned about myself, I may have gone down that road two years ago or worse yet, ended my life. I was so miserable. I even realized that my husband wasn't the source of my problems, it was my incapacity to cope with conflict and issues that arose in my life. I sought far and wide for a good counselor, someone to tell me what was wrong with me. Eventually I found out. As a matter of fact, I'm still finding out things about myself, but now I have to tools to deal with it. Of course none of this would be of any any value without the Holy Spirt's daily guidance.

Along with my open mind and people in my life that hold me accountable, my greatest source of counseling come from:

Jehovah Shalom (The Lord is Peace) - Judges 6:24

Jesus (The Prince of Peace, Counselor) - Isaiah 9:6

The Holy Spirit (Comforter or Helper) - John 14:16

& (Spirit of Truth) - John 14:17

Single after Death

According to 1 Cor. 7:39, 40 ...but if her husband is dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord. But she is happier if she so abide...

Single in Parenting

To you, there’s nothing but commendation and admiration. You’ve taken on the task of two people—Homemaker and Breadwinner. Stay strong and motivated! Band together with other single parents and support each other. Be accountable to each other. Rely upon each other for childcare and free time. Align yourselves with an older couple to mentor you and tap into the valuable resource called grandparents.

Whether by choice or circumstance, you’ve stepped up and taken the responsibility for nurturing your precious offspring. You’re loved and recognized as a valuable part of our community—not to be neglected or taken for granted.